Some people can give up their career for love, while others believe career is
more important than love! TVB young FaDan, Mandy Wong, had her boyfriend's
support 5 years ago to participate in Miss Hong Kong and entered the industry
from there. Due to her new unfixed work schedule, she and her boyfriend
eventually had conflicts and after several attempt recoveries, the relationship
had to be "certified".
MANDY: "I believe not many people can remember
that I entered the industry through Miss Hong Kong. I remember that time, I
didn't have much courage, it was my mother who encouraged me to participate in
the contest. I didn't feel strongly about it at all and I was afraid my
boyfriend wouldn't like it. However, he was actually very supportive, but I
still had a lot of mix feelings while I was running for Miss HK. First, I wasn't
someone in the limelight, I just focused on my own training. I was so silly to
think, "don't let me win" because if I won, then I would have to give up my
relationship. I basically didn't know how the entertainment circle is like.
Everyone just has their attention on the popular contestants and I was
considered the dark horse. Perhaps because that year they had a lot of dance
performances and I had a dance background, so I was able to pick up faster than
others and gain more confidence. The moment before the winners were announced, I
kept telling myself, please don't say my name, but in the end Kayi Cheung won. I
think it was well deserved for her because she has very high EQ.
Starts out Discouraged After Miss HK ended, I entered the
TVB Artistes Training Class, but I started out very discouraged. I saw the three
Miss HK winners were dressed so beautiful, doing goodwill activities and gaining
experience. It turns out this feeling I had was envy, I really envied them. I
started from zero, and I began to think if I had won the title, I could probably
get famous faster and my future in this industry will be brighter. Luckily, I
quickly adjusted my mentality and soon after, TVB made arrangements for me to
join the acting crew and officially start my acting career.
I started
working day and night, my schedule wasn't fixed and I had less time to be with
my boyfriend. I used to spend the majority of my time with him, but since the
filming schedules were unfixed, I couldn't just leave work and go out to play.
Slowly, we began having more conflicts and also my family financial issues got
worse and worse. Although we tried to rescue the relationship, it eventually
didn't work out. I thought to myself, not unless I quit! I felt very
contradicting, the relationship was dragging for some time. I knew career and
love cannot coexist, so I made a very hard decision, that was to end our 4 year
relationship and focus entirely on my career. It is harsh, but I had no other
choice!
Would Make Same Decision Even Had to Choose Again
Back to single life, I actually felt like I lost a heavy burden. I could
concentrate more on work and didn't have as much to worry about. I didn't have
to worry about [my boyfriend] being unhappy because I had a kiss/intimate scene
with someone else. There was no longer distractions, I could concentrate more on
my character, so even if I had to choose again today, I would have done the same
thing, choose career over my relationship without hesitation. I'm not
cold-blooded, I just think since I chose to pursue an acting career, I should
focus entirely on it. I cannot let other things affect me. I enjoy the sense of
accomplishment my work brings me, so I sacrificed my relationship and had
absolutely no complaints because a relationship requires engagement by both
parties. It is mutual accommodation, and not full of complaints!
In the
past few years, I've been very lucky. I was given many good roles where I could
really develop on, such as "Aam Chun Mui", "Kwan Yee So" and more recently, "Lai
Sui Mui". To the audience, the roles gave off different feelings and seeing
everyone discussing about it, whether if its compliments or criticisms, to me,
it is all just opinions. This year I've been flattered as the hot favorite for
"Most Improved Actress" award. Awards are important to artists because it gives
us certainty, of course I hope to get it!
Thankful of Poon Ka Tak for
"Aam Chun Mui" Role Just in a blink of an eye, it has already been 5
years since I've debuted. Counting it all, I've been in many many series.
Although I was never the first lead, many producers still treat me really well
and give me a lot of opportunities. Just like producer Poon Ka Tak, he is
definitely my "Pak Lok" (person identifying her talents) because he was the one
who casted me in
Suspects in Love, where I gained audience recognition
for "Aam Chun Mui". Then it keeps going, like
The Hippocratic Crush and
Divas in Distress, I had lots of room to develop in both roles. Aside
from work, we still meet to catch up. My relationship with him is like mentor
and friends. When I encounter a problem I can't resolve, I ask for his
advice."
Source: Oriental Daily
Translated by: aZnangel @ AsianEU Forum