Sunday, January 18, 2009
Her boyfriend was disloyal, but the most painful feeling wasn't how he was disloyal but the fact that he has never been honest and loyal. The sweet talk promises that he spoke of but had a hidden dishonest agenda behind it. "His words were very sweet but his actions were not like that." After Niki had broken up, she did not focus on the negative energy, rather started to approach the postive energy. She would like to Thank the past relationship..........(Kevin Cheng, have you heard that?)
This has made Niki change and come out from the 08 relationship frustration. It has allowed her to convert all the negative energy into postive energy. She said "In the past I would always remember unhappy things. Actually thinking too much makes the negative energy become magnetic. It would make me even more unhappy. One day, I finally realised failure actually makes you grow up."
Secret 1 - Relationship
In 2008, her relationship journey was filled with more unhappy times. Niki and Kevin Cheng the perfect couple split up in the end. "When you date you will naturally have happy and unhappy times. Last year of course I had unhappy times. I know I should not continue to misunderstand and I deleted all the negative energy. But of course it takes time to do that."
Disagree with people who two time others or more
Last year Kevin Cheng was exposed and rumoured to be dating Charmaine Sheh. Things seemed to get suspicious. She said "The world is fair, you can choose people, people can choose you. From the beginning to end I will choose a boyfriend that I hope to be with for the rest of my life. As long as everyone's direction is the same. There is sweet talk but although it's his words. His actions are not like that. I have been sad but I let it go." (Do you Thank him?) "Haha, I would like to thank all the boyfriends in the past who have made me grow up. But I need a man that will only be dedicated to me, that way it will be forever. Although, you can be with someone for the rest of your life even when they aren't dedicated to you. But I haven't got to that level yet. I absolutely disagree with people who two time others or more."
Secret 2 - Family
Niki cherishes and loves her family. She feels that it's more important than anything. "I was raised by my grandfather and grandmother that is why I am used to living their way. My parents are also very good to them. I will insist to live with my family."
After working, Niki naturally supports her family's finance. Actually her family has not given her any pressure. Her mother has also never requested her to buy anything. The pressure she has is from herself. "Afterwards, I discovered that if money can resolve problems then it isn't a problem. I realised my parents just wanted to see more of me because Niki Chow is their daughter. That's all, there is no explanation."
Secret 3 - Health
When she was young she would drink Chinese medicine as soup. Not sure if it was because she had drank so much medicine in the past that she takes care of her health. She doesn't drink cold drinks and doesn't have late nights. But recently she had problems with her eyes. When she treated her left eye, her right eye was affected. "The doctor said it can immediately affect the pupils. I really want to have surgery to make my eyes better however this year I have a lot of work planned and cannot rest for 2 weeks."
Secret 4 - Work
Niki's first job for the year is releasing her album. She hasn't released an album for 2 years. Those who are not her fans may have already forgotten she was a singer.
Wants to become a Pop Queen
She said "I started off acting in movies. Afterwards I started working in TV and then singing. Singing is really my interest. Although these days you cannot earn big amounts of money from your album. But postive energy tells me one day I hope to be like my idol Sandy Lam. From not being approved for her singing talent to becoming a Pop queen. I have confidence that I will become successful. Just like when I thought I couldn't write lyrics and could not write a good song. But this time they are on my new album. I will not give up."
Niki would like to thank those who have allowed her to have postive energy. She would like to Thank all of them.
"My family is my life and also my work power. I know that they may feel pressure but they will always support me. They have always loved me and I want to Thank them."
"My assistant is someone who knows me very well. Thankyou for your hard work. She doesn't see this as a simple job and always treats me as part of her family. I really want to Thank her."
"I would like to Thank the media. Even if the reports are not good. I will see it as encouragement, anything I don't do well I will work on. They make me develop."
Translated by: Matchbox @ mediachamber.net