Niki Chow: if he fails to co-operate then I cannot do anything
Tuesday, January 13, 2009
As everyone knows, in September last year Niki was hurt in love. Since then she has not accepted any interviews to discuss about the incident. Today she accepted an exclusive interview with "MingPao Weekly". She still appeared happy and joyful. "I cannot say that I am open minded but I someone who doesn't want to make myself unhappy. For example; if he treats me badly or my friends treat me badly. I will consider that it's not me who has treated them badly. As long as I haven't let them down that's all that matters. It is impossible to control others."Niki who is a Virgo, pursues perfection. She has spent more than 2 years to find people such as Khalil Fong, Chan Fai Young etc, 10 different Music specialists to produce her 3rd album "Redefine", to let her fans understand her sincerity in singing. Repositioning her status in the music industry. Niki has no fear in entering a new relationship. "If you ask me, I still believe that love can be forever. But if he fails to co-operate then I cannot do anything." She insists in not mentioning her past love's name. Remembering the happy times is better then remembering the bad things about him, making myself unable to open up for a long while."
Niki stated that her new album (Redfine) represents the growing process of her music. As well as being involved in behind the scenes work, she also wrote the lyrics for a mandarin song called (還是讓你走) "Let You Go". It's the sub theme song for the series she filmed to enter the Mainland market. "The Legend of the Book and Sword". It tells the love triangle between Fok Ching Tong, Chan Ka Lok and Princess Heung Heung. The reporter directly asked her if she was afraid it will cause people to think it's associated with other people. She laughed and said "It will not, it is based on what the crew have told me to write about. I know that everyone can associate this with anything, but it really was written based on the story from "The Legend of the Book and Sword".
Niki joined the music industry 4 years ago. She is now re-positioning her status in her music career. Niki frankly said due to experience in relationships she see's it differently now. However, she still believes that love is forever. "I currently still believe that, depends whether the person is able to co-operate with me. Individually I believe that. Currently I still think very simple. I also hope that the person will co-operate with me and think simple too. That way everyone has the same target but if they don't think that way then it won't work. In that case nothing can be done. I don't want any incident to change the way I think. My personality is like that, it's hard to change someone's personality. I do not want to change myself just because of any particular incident. Many people say I am naive, I think that is my characteristic. My parents dated and have been together all their life. Of course, I would like to date and be with that person forever. That is the way I feel personally, however perhaps due to changes in time, people's value theory's are different. People have many choices and have different opinions."
(If the person cannot co-operate, will it hurt Niki?) "If the person cannot co-operate then it means they are not suitable for me. They do not meet my requirements." (But will it hurt you?) "Have to see the process, if they are honest I will understand". (But what if they deceive you?) "Lying is not good, they should tell me earlier. A female's youth is limited. I am really afraid of things like that. Why would they lie to me? They should generously tell me earlier and not waste my time."
(Experiencing a failed relationship, the reporter asked Niki if she would be unhappy?) "Two people together must have happy and unhappy times. If I only remember the bad times, the energy will change. It will only be negative energy and you should have positive energy. I...cannot say I am someone who is open minded. But I am someone who doesn't want to allow myself to be unhappy. Although I am not someone who will let people bully me and not respond. However, I will do my best to try to make their mistakes sound less serious and then reduce it to nothing. If I am often thinking about unhappy things, I will not be happy doing anything and will not perform the best way I can. For example; if he treats me badly or my friends treat me badly. I will consider that it's not me who has treated them badly. As long as I haven't let them down that's all that matters. It is impossible to control others. I will use time to forget about unpleasant things.
No feelings, bumping into each other becomes nothing(The Entertainment circle isn't big, will Niki feel awkward seeing him again?) "Who? You mean the person who treated me badly?" (Yes) "I will treat it as work. I really haven't thought about it. If I think about it I will only recall unpleasant times. Even if we bump into each other there will be nothing. When you have no feelings anymore, all the problems you had before become nothing."
Niki said that she would like to date again and is prepared for a new relationship. "If I said No then that wouldn't be true. How can someone not want to be in love? (What are your requirements?) "Must have similar thoughts, a person I see as my long-term partner and a good person. Most important is that they only dedicate their love to me. Loyalty is also very important. I am afraid that people will lie to me. (Will you choose someone from the Entertainment circle?) "I reserve that, I mean that Nothing is absolute." (Do you believe there are good guys out there?) "I believe, I believe that there is a good hearted guy for me because I am a good person. Good hearted people will have good rewards." (Can you tolerate him having a 3rd party?) "Of Course not, that question I can answer you quickly." (What If you discover?) "Then Bye Bye". (In the past, today and in the future it you're do the same?) "Yes, Right." Niki's firm answer.
Source: Scans by CX839 at KN Forum http://kevinniki.ipbfree.com
Translated by: Matchbox @ mediachamber.net
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